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Objective: Ethically compress time, eliminate false safety, and create emotional momentum—without fear tactics or hard-sell pressure.

Future Regret Framing

TEMPLATE:

If [X] happened [soon/later], would [desired outcome] be in place—or would [consequence] be the thing you wish you’d handled when you had the chance?

Example: If next Tuesday came with bad news, would your family be reading your love letter—or scrambling to pay for the silence?

Why It Works: It creates a vivid, emotional contrast between action and inaction. 'Love letter' is symbolic and humanizing; 'scrambling' evokes anxiety. The question makes regret feel real before it happens.

Example: If she had to decode your financial life tomorrow, would she find a plan you put in place? Or a mess you never got around to fixing?

Why It Works: It confronts the disconnect between intention and preparation without accusation.

Delayed Cost Reframe

TEMPLATE:

Every [day/month/year] you wait, [cost/risk] increases—and the window to [safe outcome] shrinks. Are you comfortable trading that for delay?

Example: Each birthday we pass, the price goes up and your options shrink. Are you comfortable trading certainty in the future for money today?

Why It Works: Turns time into a liability. 'Buying vs. burning' reframes delay as a dangerous transaction instead of harmless waiting.

Example: Waiting saves nothing. It just hands your family the bill later—are you okay with them paying for your hesitation?

Why It Works:

‘Hesitation’ suggests that the current situation is temporary and the only thinking precluding a natural conclusions is the clients emotions/perspective. A temporary barrier you can confront together.

Identity Collision Question

TEMPLATE:

You’ve always seen yourself as someone who [positive trait or role]. So what’s stopping you from doing the one thing that ensures [emotional or practical outcome]?

Example: You’ve always been the one who shows up for your family. So what’s stopping you from setting things up so you that you show up as long as they need you?

Why It Works: It doesn’t challenge their self-image—it invokes it. The phrase 'still showing up' emotionally reframes the policy as continued presence.

Example: You take pride in planning for what matters most. So what’s left to plan if the one thing that protects everything gets skipped?

Why It Works: Subtly frames procrastination as an incomplete plan, not a bad decision. Elevates the importance of the choice without belittling the prospect.

Use-Case Summary Table

Scenario

Template to Use

Why It Fits

“I’m healthy. I’ve got time.”

Future Regret Framing

Time compression + consequence clarity

“I’ll think about it.”

Delayed Cost Reframe

Exposes hidden cost of delay

“It’s not a priority right now.”

Identity Collision Question

Reframes inaction as identity misalignment

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